Author Ava Pennington
Author Ava Pennington

Thirty-five years ago, I stopped a pickpocket. It happened on Nassau Street in lower Manhattan as I watched a man match his stride with a woman in front of him. When he was close enough, he reached into her side coat pocket from behind and lifted out her wallet.

She was clearly oblivious to what was happening, so I said something. Actually, I shouted something. It wasn’t very profound. More on the order of, “Hey, you! That’s not yours! Give it back!”

The victim stopped and turned around. The thief did the same. Then he called out something I’ll never forget. “Mind your own business!”

That’s right. He chastised me for interfering with his “business.”

I had forgotten about that incident until recently. Before I canceled my landline I received a steady stream of scammer calls. You know, the ones where someone calls from “Windows” and says they’ve seen “suspicious activity” on your computer…and then they offer to help.

The frequency of these calls was beyond annoying. No matter what I said or did, I couldn’t stop them. So I confess to having a little fun at their expense. If I couldn’t stop the calls, it gave me a tiny bit of satisfaction to cause them grief, too. So I might have pretended to be deaf and make them repeat themselves umpteen times before I hung up. Or I might have feigned cluelessness about owning a computer, so how could they have received notification of suspicious activity?

But one call stands out from all the others. The scammer call came (again) and I messed with the caller (again). This time his response left me speechless…and reminded me of the pickpocket from thirty-five years ago. When he realized I wasn’t falling for his line, he chastised me for wasting his time! He had called me for fraudulent purposes, intending to scam me, yet he had the nerve to say I’m wasting his time?

Clearly the pickpocket and the scammer both subscribed to the philosophy, “The best defense is a good offense.”

Then I thought of how I often respond when I’m under the Holy Spirit’s conviction. Yup. The best defense is a good offense.

  • Lord, I know I’m supposed to forgive, but what she did is so much worse!
  • Lord, if I don’t get this job, then it’s your fault if I can’t pay my bills.
  • Lord, I know you said I need to put others’ interests ahead of my own, but if you want me to glorify you, I need that opportunity.

Sigh. What I need is humility. I need to call my behavior what God calls it. Unforgiveness is sin. Pride is sin. Selfishness is sin. The best defense is not a good offense. The best defense is humility and surrender to the Holy Spirit. Because, in reality, I have no defense for my own for sin. I only have the payment made by Jesus Christ on my behalf.

My best defense is my only defense. His name is Jesus.

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  1. Pat Weimer

    You are so awesome! Love your writings.

  2. Ava Pennington

    Awww…thank you, Pat!
    So grateful for your encouragement, my friend!

  3. Linda Samaritoni

    Have you been reading my mind?? You’ve put into words all of my feelings on this irritation to my soul (not to mention the offense I’ve given to the Lord).

  4. Melissa Henderson

    We all need humility. 🙂 Thank you for the reminder. 🙂

  5. Julie

    Thank you for this reminder!

  6. Jessica Brodie

    Great point. I hope to embrace more humility this year and going forward.

  7. Yvonne Morgan

    Great reminder to be humble in all we do.

  8. S. A. Foster

    Love the story about the pickpocket and then the scammer. This is so true! We need to respond with humility. Great post!

  9. Anne Mackie Morelli

    I really appreciate your comment, “The best defense is humility and surrender to the Holy Spirit.” How often we want to launch into defense to draw people away from our behavior and poor choices. How much better it would be if we could receive their comment and accept responsibility and look towards how we might modify our behavior.

  10. Karen Friday

    So good, Ava. Your examples were perfect to match your title and how we need humility instead of trying to defend ourselves for not forgiving, selfishness, and so on.

  11. Nancy E. Head

    I occasionally mess with the scammers too. Great fun. Wonderful lesson on humility. God bless!

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